{"id":8868,"date":"2026-08-11T19:23:53","date_gmt":"2026-08-11T23:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=8868"},"modified":"2026-08-11T19:23:53","modified_gmt":"2026-08-11T23:23:53","slug":"the-coo-who-taught-me-everything-not-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=8868","title":{"rendered":"The COO Who Taught Me Everything Not to Do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the best career lessons don\u2019t come from a mentor.<\/p>\n<p>They come from someone you promise yourself you\u2019ll never become.<\/p>\n<p>Early in my career, I worked for a retirement plan firm where employee turnover was so frequent that I joked we should install a revolving door at the front entrance.<\/p>\n<p>The reason wasn\u2019t difficult to identify.<\/p>\n<p>The COO viewed talented employees as threats instead of assets.<\/p>\n<p>People with new ideas were ignored. Employees who solved problems weren\u2019t rewarded\u2014they were viewed with suspicion. Instead of building a stronger organization, management seemed more interested in protecting titles and egos.<\/p>\n<p>The result was predictable.<\/p>\n<p>One by one, good people left.<\/p>\n<p>Some started their own firms. Others joined competitors. Many became successful because they were finally allowed to do what they were good at.<\/p>\n<p>Watching that unfold taught me far more than any management seminar ever could.<\/p>\n<p>Leadership isn\u2019t about making sure you\u2019re the smartest person in the room.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about hiring smart people and giving them every opportunity to succeed.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re afraid someone will outshine you, you\u2019ve already failed as a leader.<\/p>\n<p>The strongest organizations I\u2019ve encountered aren\u2019t built around one indispensable executive. They\u2019re built around teams where people trust one another, share ideas, and celebrate each other\u2019s success.<\/p>\n<p>Ironically, the COO who tried so hard to protect his position ended up teaching me one of the most valuable business lessons of my career.<\/p>\n<p>Leadership isn\u2019t measured by how many people work for you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s measured by how many talented people choose to stay.<\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the best career lessons don\u2019t come from a mentor. They come from someone you promise yourself you\u2019ll never become. Early in my career, I worked for a retirement plan firm where employee turnover was so frequent that I joked &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=8868\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8868"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8868"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8868\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8869,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8868\/revisions\/8869"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8868"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8868"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8868"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}