{"id":5970,"date":"2022-02-01T11:26:43","date_gmt":"2022-02-01T16:26:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=5970"},"modified":"2022-02-01T11:26:43","modified_gmt":"2022-02-01T16:26:43","slug":"dont-let-failure-or-bad-times-define-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=5970","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t let failure or bad times define you"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve ever read anything I\u2019ve ever written, you probably know that I talk about the experience I had at a semi-prestigious Long Island law firm.<\/p>\n<p>I can blame the bureaucracy, the marketing limitations set by lawyers who didn\u2019t bring in any business, the unsupportive law firm administrator and managing attorney, but ultimately, I failed to start a national ERISA practice there. But I wouldn\u2019t let that failure define me, it just drove me to succeed when I started my own law practice. The poor treatment I got there helped me act tougher, stop waiting my time on relationships that wouldn\u2019t deliver, drove me to succeed, and created a chip on my shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>I knew they would suffer since they didn\u2019t understand the future of social media and I knew I would succeed because I saw the future. I enjoy writing about them because when you\u2019re poorly treated, you want to rub your success in the people that were dismissive of you.<\/p>\n<p>I know someone who lost their father when they were 12. I have a wife who lost her father when she was 16. The difference is the former allowed that loss define her and my wife has refused the untimely death of her father to hold her back.<\/p>\n<p>We are all shaped by our past, both good and bad. We should never let a bad event or time define us.<\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019ve ever read anything I\u2019ve ever written, you probably know that I talk about the experience I had at a semi-prestigious Long Island law firm. I can blame the bureaucracy, the marketing limitations set by lawyers who didn\u2019t bring &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=5970\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5970"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5970"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5970\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5971,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5970\/revisions\/5971"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5970"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5970"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5970"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}