I may not remember what I ate for lunch yesterday, but I remember everyone who was ever nice to me when I first started working and I remember better the ones who didn\u2019t. I worked with a lot of people over the years and I just never wanted to be remembered as the backstabber, the yeller, or the insulter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even when dealing with impossible bosses, ineffective co-workers, or clueless fellow plan providers, I always made a choice that I wanted to be kind. I never wanted to come off as the workroom bully because life is short and life is tough and there is no sense in. hurting others. I have a friend of mine who I know back from the day when I was a law clerk for a law firm in Boston when I was getting my LLM while he was a first-year associate. When we talk, we will mention certain partners at the firm who may or may not still be there and I will mention the partners who were absolutely cruel. Everybody can have a bad day here or there, but I\u2019m talking about people who were just cruel, all the time. It\u2019s 22 years later and I\u2019ve gotten over all of the nonsense, but I don\u2019t forget.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You have a choice, be nice, or be cruel. It\u2019s easier to be nice and it\u2019s better for everyone to be nice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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