{"id":1807,"date":"2014-05-11T19:14:09","date_gmt":"2014-05-11T23:14:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=1807"},"modified":"2014-05-11T19:14:09","modified_gmt":"2014-05-11T23:14:09","slug":"networking-is-about-building-relationships-and-trust-not-the-quick-sale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=1807","title":{"rendered":"Networking is about building relationships and trust, not the quick sale"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have said it repeatedly; the one thing that really ticks me off is how poorly people network. The folks who are poor at networking don\u2019t understand that any relationship requires time to build up trust. I\u2019ll see it when a financial advisor I met for the very first time is already asking me about my clients and whether I can refer them business. I don\u2019t know if this advisor is the second coming of Bernie Madoff or not, so I\u2019m not likely to just start referring clients to someone I just met.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t learn networking at school or where I worked because those were skills that no one seems to think is worthwhile to teach. I learned the hard way, by attending networking events. In my mind, networking is all about building relationships. I\u2019m not trying to directly sell my services to potential clients; I look at networking as attempting to develop relationships with people who could refer me business. I don\u2019t have to sell directly to people I meet because if they need ERISA legal services, they know where to find me.<\/p>\n<p>My best friends in this business didn\u2019t start that way from day one. One of my biggest supporters started being a help to my business by just giving me a call one day saying how much he loved my writing. Over time, we worked together and he referred me business and helping me develop other relationships that grew my business.\u00a0 When I first talked to him, I wasn\u2019t trying to get him as a client and we both needed time to develop a sense of trust so we could work together.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, there are people who network who are very pushy in getting business. Some times they get a client or two, but most of the time they fall flat.\u00a0 I\u2019ve met too many insurance agents who tried to me under the guise of networking, but centered more about my insurance needs.<\/p>\n<p>Being successful in the retirement plan business is all about building relationships and it\u2019s hard to build relationships when all you\u2019re trying to do is make a sale. There are many relationships out there that is worthy to build, that will net you a lot more than just that quick sale.<\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have said it repeatedly; the one thing that really ticks me off is how poorly people network. The folks who are poor at networking don\u2019t understand that any relationship requires time to build up trust. I\u2019ll see it when &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=1807\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5,1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1807"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1807"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1807\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1808,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1807\/revisions\/1808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}