{"id":5199,"date":"2020-12-23T13:03:16","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T18:03:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=5199"},"modified":"2020-12-23T13:03:16","modified_gmt":"2020-12-23T18:03:16","slug":"what-annoys-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/therosenbaumlawfirm.com\/blog\/?p=5199","title":{"rendered":"What annoys me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of the greatest parts of my job as an ERISA attorney is helping financial advisors out with potential clients and current clients. I never charge for a phone call or an email because helping other plan providers out will get me referrals when their clients need an ERISA attorney.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have been an ERISA attorney for 22 years and know advisors around the country for many years. The advisors I have worked with are interested in utilizing my knowledge to help grow their practice for their clients, they are interested in a relationship with me because I help them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I used LinkedIn to develop relationships with other professionals to further increase the distribution channel for my articles, blogs, and platform. I just accepted a LinkedIn invitation from an advisor because a big chunk of my job is helping advisors out, on the house.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead of someone trying to network, this is the response I get from the advisor:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHi Ary, I was on LinkedIn and viewed your profile today, I saw that you were doing some great work serving the legal Industry and I\u2019m impressed. I just want to introduce myself. The reason why I reached out to you is because my team and I help attorneys and others in the legal industry with comprehensive financial planning. I wasn\u2019t sure if you needed any help with this, but I wanted to reach because I was curious if you share the same concerns as many of my other clients in this industry. If so, would you be open to a quick 10 min chat?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you spent 3 minutes reviewing my LinkedIn profile, you would know that I work with many financial advisors around the country. This advisor clearly doesn\u2019t understand or doesn\u2019t care what I do because he says I am \u201cdoing great work serving the legal industry.\u201d No, I am serving the retirement plan industry as I have very few clients that are lawyers. Like men who throw strange lines at women in a bar, I wonder if this approach at trying to drum up business actually works? Even if I needed help with my financial planning, wouldn\u2019t I use an advisor that I have built trust with over decades of time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Relationships are built on trust, not cold calls\/ cold LinkedIn DMs. By the way, I received three similar messages from him after I didn\u2019t respond to the first. I thought after the first one, he would have received the hint.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The retirement plan business as any other business is predicated on relationships, not quick scores.<\/p>\n<p><span class='st_sharethis' st_title='{title}' st_url='{url}' displayText='ShareThis'><\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the greatest parts of my job as an ERISA attorney is helping financial advisors out with potential clients and current clients. 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